Homosexuality A Sin? Really?

Okay so we're taught that god really hates gays right? God and Hate already doesn't connect. But no check this. Christian LGBT always try to pray themselves out of being gay right. But literally when did you ever hear someone who has asked God to be straight and had success!! If God didn't like it he wouldn't drive people crazy trying to get rid of it through prayer, he'd just free whoever was praying from it right? Exactly, God never makes people straight. I'm thinking thats because he doesn't care. Which is a further sign that God DOES NOT have a problem with Homosexuality. The eternal message is love right?