I dont want to live with my dad i get in trouble for everything!!?

lets start this off with im 14 and my parents are divorced and i live with my dad. ok so i am like the maid of the house literally i have to clean m brothers room for goodness sake i get grounded for even looking at a guy one time my brother told my dad i like a guy and i got grounded for a month, my friend ran away and i got grounded for that, but if my brothers kiss sumone my dad juss thinks that is the awesomest thing ever. im not allowed to do anything at all. i got partnered up with a guy for a project and i got grounded, why do i alway get in trouble for every little thing but when it comes to guys it is worse i asked my dad why im not allowed to like any guys and he satarted yelling at what guys are there for you to like huh? then i got grounded my best friend got caught hanging out with a guy and my dad grounded me cuz he thought i waz doing the same as her. a guy said hi to me but i didnt answer back and my dad started yeling at me for tlaking to guys! i also got in trouble for a drawing. i dont like living with him i want to live with my mom cuz she lets me do almost snything i want except for bad things such as smoking and drinking. why ismy dad like this? why am i not allowed to do anything and why do i always get in trouble ? i dotn havebad grades i clean constanly i do what ever he tells me to yet i still get in trouble. by the way dont give me any crap like oh itz cuz he loves you and wants to protect you